![]() ![]() Hard limits are things you’ll never do under any circumstance. The goal is to be in a BDSM construct where you can freely communicate, feel pleasure, and experience intimacy without fear. Talking ahead of time and being upfront about these limits helps create an environment where your boundaries, needs, and desires are heard and respected. Now before you run into the bedroom with whips and handcuffs in your hands, here’s what you need to know about limits in your BDSM relationship. A consensual BDSM relationship is where you both ensure that nothing transitions to abuse, and both of you can let go completely and enjoy the fun. It should be a place where you can both openly express yourselves sexually without the thought or fear of harm, both physically and mentally. ![]() Restraints combinations (wrists to waist, etc.A successful BDSM relationship should be a safe haven for you and your partner. Love: means that the activity figures among the sub’s favorites. Like: means that the sub likes the activity at least on an occasional basis. Okay: means that the sub has no problem with the activity but it has no special appeal to her. Desire: means that the sub has little or no experience with the activity but greatly wants to try it. Curious: means that the sub have no (or very little) experience with the activity but that she find the idea interesting. Hmm…: means that the sub has no (or very little) experience with the activity and that she is not really curious about it either. Dislike: means that the sub don’t like the activity but would not object if ordered to. Those can be due to either a VERY strong dislike, fear or disdain for that activity in general but that it is not impossible to negotiate them under some special circumstances. Soft limit: means that the sub has great reticences towards that activity. ![]() Limit: means that the activity is a hard limit and that the sub will NEVER do that activity under any circumstances ever. The Almost Perfect Male Dom/Female Sub Checklist! So it?s nice to use them to discuss or negotiate certain activities but perhaps not-so-good to rely on them only. * Last: Note that has much has I recommend using lists, especially for beginners, they are only a tool and don?t replace good communication. ![]() I guess I could perhaps try to make a more general one some day but I?m not quite sure when I?ll find the time so I make no promise here When I started to write it, it was only for my persona use and I never thought of posting it anywhere until now. But I guess anyone can arrange that to their liking as wellĪlso, like the title says, this list is for male doms/female subs? So I?m very sorry if this doesn?t apply to everyone. I have also arrange the ?willingness scale? Instead of using numbers from 0 to 5 like many other lists do I put a one-word answer choice. It is still not quite as ?perfect? as it could have been? and this is one of the reason I think it could be a good idea to post it here: If anyone can spot something I may have missed just let me know and I could still edit the post and add it to the original list ^-^ After my reply to freakxxx in the Training Your Sub thread someone convinced me to post here that checklist I made up a few months ago? I never found a list that seemed complete enough before so with the help of four different checklists found on the web plus another comprehensive list of fetishes I came up with my own. ![]()
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